Manysibling dynamicscan be complicated. These tumultuous relationships may sometimesextend through adulthood, as you’re about to read.
Intoday’s story, a man suspected his younger brother ofstealinghis wife’s breast milk and swapping it with cow’s milk. He confronted his little sibling, who denied the accusations and refused to apologize.
The author has yet to find solid evidence but is nonetheless convinced. Feeling confused about how to resolve the issue, he asked the AITA subreddit if he was wrong about making such allegations.
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A man suspected his younger brother of stealing his wife’s breast milk
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The author confronted his brother, who denied the accusations and refused to apologize
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Cow’s milk poses grave dangers to an infant
Many readers may not understand the concerns the author and his wife had when the infant drank cow’s milk and may also wonder why it caused such a bad reaction.
The couple was fortunate enough that their child only seemed irritated and nothing else because,according tothe Centers for Disease Control (CDC), anyone younger than 12 months may experience intestinal bleeding.
WebMDstates cow’s milk does not contain iron, protein, or Vitamin C. Therefore, most experts only recommend formula or breast milk for an infant because they contain antibodies that fight against potential diseases like ear infections, asthma, Type 1 diabetes, obesity, gastrointestinal issues, and sudden infant death syndrome.
Confronting a family member should be done with respect
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The younger brother may have felt attacked, causing him to be defensive. In cases where confrontations between family members are necessary, toxic relationship expertE.B. Johnson, NLP-MP, advises doing so with respect.
In an article forMedium, Johnson emphasized the importance of approaching the situation with calmness and compassion. Doing so helps the person feel seen and respected, which may urge them to cooperate more with your needs.
Johnson adds that it is natural for the person being confronted to lash out and feel insulted. But ultimately, you must stick to factors within your control.
“Remain respectful, and let everything else fall on the shoulders of the other person,” Johnson wrote.
Confrontationsaren’t always heated, but they are often uncomfortable. Johnson says managing expectations for the person trying to procure information is important. Doing so helps regulate emotions.
“It’s a way of protecting ourselves and a way of building up realistic goals within that confrontation,” she stated.
It may help the author to speak with his brother with more compassion and less judgment. The younger sibling may or may not own up to what happened, but taking the response/denial for what it is also keeps the situation from blowing out of proportion.
He may also want to take more preventive measures to thwart similar incidents that may endanger his child. One way is to change his PIN anddeny his brother accessto his home.
The man answered a few questions to clarify some parts of his story
Most readers sided with the author
Those who thought he was being a jerk questioned his logic in making the allegations
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