It’s that time of the year, Pandas! The time forheart-shaped candies, ‘I heart you’ balloons, and bad love puns. You might hate the commercialization of the day that’s supposed to represent love and connection. But you can’t deny that with loads of merchandise comes the opportunity to laugh at some fails.We’ve scoured the Internet and found the best of the worst. From funny spelling mistakes and cringy design choices to some absurdlygrotesque Valentine’s products. You mean to tell me they sell heart-shaped beef? Bacon strips shaped to look like a rose? That’s the level of silliness I’m always up for!Because it’s Valentine’s Day,Bored Pandareached out to Ireland’s #1 dating and relationship expert Frances Kelleher. She was kind enough to tell us why February 14th matters and how coupled (and single!) people can make this day extra special!More info:How To Double Your Dating|Frances Kelleher|Facebook|LinkedIn|Instagram|Twitter (X)This post may includeaffiliate links.
It’s that time of the year, Pandas! The time forheart-shaped candies, ‘I heart you’ balloons, and bad love puns. You might hate the commercialization of the day that’s supposed to represent love and connection. But you can’t deny that with loads of merchandise comes the opportunity to laugh at some fails.
We’ve scoured the Internet and found the best of the worst. From funny spelling mistakes and cringy design choices to some absurdlygrotesque Valentine’s products. You mean to tell me they sell heart-shaped beef? Bacon strips shaped to look like a rose? That’s the level of silliness I’m always up for!
Because it’s Valentine’s Day,Bored Pandareached out to Ireland’s #1 dating and relationship expert Frances Kelleher. She was kind enough to tell us why February 14th matters and how coupled (and single!) people can make this day extra special!
More info:How To Double Your Dating|Frances Kelleher|Facebook|LinkedIn|Instagram|Twitter (X)
This post may includeaffiliate links.
If you’re a cynic when it comes to love and all the hearts and sweets make you nauseous, Valentine’s Day may seem pointless to you. Even some coupled-up people view it as nothing but a capitalist scam. However, relationship experts say that February 14th can be pretty important for people in relationships.We asked relationship coach Frances Kelleher whether Valentine’s Day should be special for couples. She says that it doesn’t necessarily have to be on February 14th. The most important thing is to celebrate your union, and Valentine’s Day can be a good reminder to do that.
If you’re a cynic when it comes to love and all the hearts and sweets make you nauseous, Valentine’s Day may seem pointless to you. Even some coupled-up people view it as nothing but a capitalist scam. However, relationship experts say that February 14th can be pretty important for people in relationships.
We asked relationship coach Frances Kelleher whether Valentine’s Day should be special for couples. She says that it doesn’t necessarily have to be on February 14th. The most important thing is to celebrate your union, and Valentine’s Day can be a good reminder to do that.
“We need to keep appreciating our partners and not take them for granted; otherwise, the love dies,” the relationship coach explains. “It’s as simple as that. You have to keep dating your partner, too. This keeps the emotional bond strong. The health of the emotional bond of the couple is what keeps the relationship alive.“Kelleher has some suggestions on what couples can do. “Have a date night minimum once a month and just reconnect and have fun. Do not talk about the children or the house bills, just have fun and celebrate your union often that way.”
“We need to keep appreciating our partners and not take them for granted; otherwise, the love dies,” the relationship coach explains. “It’s as simple as that. You have to keep dating your partner, too. This keeps the emotional bond strong. The health of the emotional bond of the couple is what keeps the relationship alive.”
Kelleher has some suggestions on what couples can do. “Have a date night minimum once a month and just reconnect and have fun. Do not talk about the children or the house bills, just have fun and celebrate your union often that way.”
Dating coach Frances Kelleher tells Bored Panda that the definition of ‘something special’ is different for each couple. “Doing something special does not mean you have to spend lots of money on them or have to do something lavish.”
“It could be making them breakfast in bed, washing their car, filling the dishwasher,” Kelleher lists some possibilities. “These are all acts of love. It could be putting the children to bed a bit earlier so you have a date night at home watching a nice movie.”
Remember Gary Chapman’s book “The Five Love Languages?” Although it’s mostly based on generalizations, some people find that his described types of love languages may apply to them.A 2006 studyfound that Chapman’s love languages “may reflect behaviors” we use to maintain a good relationship.“Check what your partner’s love language is,” Kelleher advises. “There are five. For instance, one is acts of service. Another is receiving gifts. You can do the love language quiz online to see which one you are and which one they are. This is a game changer as people usually give love the way they want to receive it, not in the love language of their partner, which could be totally different.”
Remember Gary Chapman’s book “The Five Love Languages?” Although it’s mostly based on generalizations, some people find that his described types of love languages may apply to them.A 2006 studyfound that Chapman’s love languages “may reflect behaviors” we use to maintain a good relationship.
“Check what your partner’s love language is,” Kelleher advises. “There are five. For instance, one is acts of service. Another is receiving gifts. You can do the love language quiz online to see which one you are and which one they are. This is a game changer as people usually give love the way they want to receive it, not in the love language of their partner, which could be totally different.”
And what should the loners do on Valentine’s Day? Some women opt for a day with their girlfriends – a Galentine’s Day. Others might choose to ignore the day altogether. Kelleher says that single people can also use this day for doing something special. “I would advise using this day as fuel to propel you forward in meeting the right partner.”
“Make a decision that, this time next year, you will have found your right partner,” the dating expert recommends. “Do three things every day that move you towards your goal, and make love your number one priority. Successful people in any field focus on that one goal that they want and work consistently towards it.”
“Do something kind for a person or animal that is less well off than you,” the dating coach advises. “This makes you feel good and makes you a love magnet, too, as what you give out, you get back.““Valentine’s is about being kind, remembering that love is the most important thing in the world and that we can give love in many different ways, not just romantically,” the relationship expert adds.
“Do something kind for a person or animal that is less well off than you,” the dating coach advises. “This makes you feel good and makes you a love magnet, too, as what you give out, you get back.”
“Valentine’s is about being kind, remembering that love is the most important thing in the world and that we can give love in many different ways, not just romantically,” the relationship expert adds.
While Valentine’s Day adventures sound fun, there’s nothing wrong with just staying home and doing nothing, as long as you’re doing it together. Brittany Jakubiak, a psychology researcher at Syracuse University, toldInsiderthat over 25% of Britons say they want to do ‘nothing’ on Valentine’s Day. “They might be onto something – the key to a good day might be to not do very much but to do it together!”
Found this gal with her face upside down at a T.J. Maxx in Eugene, Oregon. It’s the first misprint I’ve ever found, so I was pretty excited! I didn’t get it because it’s not my personal style but still very cool!
Opting for something quiet might be better than panicking and buying some meaningless gift. “If their partner is the romantic sort who longs to be pampered, they are likely to feel unappreciated and unloved, and this could even cause a crisis in the relationship,” Spelman says of the flowers and chocolates.
Experts recommend couples remember that not all relationships need grand gestures. Scientists have proven that a simple touch can reduce stress and increase mood and satisfaction with life. It can even lower the risk of catching a cold!“If touch communicates, ‘I’m here, I care about you, I have your back,’ then avoiding touch may communicate a lack of availability, concern, or commitment and ultimately undermine the relationship,” Jakubiak told Insider.
Experts recommend couples remember that not all relationships need grand gestures. Scientists have proven that a simple touch can reduce stress and increase mood and satisfaction with life. It can even lower the risk of catching a cold!
“If touch communicates, ‘I’m here, I care about you, I have your back,’ then avoiding touch may communicate a lack of availability, concern, or commitment and ultimately undermine the relationship,” Jakubiak told Insider.
To the couples: here honey, happy Valentine’s! I think you need this.To the singles: if you wanna find someone, try the bike, not the wine.
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While some people find Valentine’s Day to be a bit over-commercialized, it still offers an opportunity to showcase humor in a way that can foster connections. For instance, adding a bit of levity with clever lines or quips can lighten the mood and create memorable interactions.If you’re looking for more examples of how a playful approach can set the tone for a great conversation, you might want to explore thesefunny valentine jokesthat guarantee a smile.
While some people find Valentine’s Day to be a bit over-commercialized, it still offers an opportunity to showcase humor in a way that can foster connections. For instance, adding a bit of levity with clever lines or quips can lighten the mood and create memorable interactions.
If you’re looking for more examples of how a playful approach can set the tone for a great conversation, you might want to explore thesefunny valentine jokesthat guarantee a smile.
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