Couples often have to take their time when picking theirweddingguestlist. However, generally most people expect their attending friends and family to at least behave. But as experience shows, people often make questionable decisions.

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“Yes indeed! After 13 years of covering weddings all around the world, our team has a long list of some crazy stories. I once attended aweddingwhere a guest got into the couple’s open bar a bit too early. By the time the cake was being cut, this person was on the dance floor, trying to reenactDirty Dancing— solo.”

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“Trust me, no one was ready for a full-body interpretive version of “I’ve Had the Time of My Life.” It was… unforgettable, but probably not in the way the couple wanted,” she shared. Even the most conscientious planner would probably not have a strategy in place for something like this and many people are not nearly as good atplanningas they think.

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“And then there was a wedding when one of the groomsmen — yes, a groomsman — managed to spill red wine on the bride’s gown before the ceremony had even started. It was like arom-com blooper reel, except it wasn’t funny in real life.” she shared with Bored Panda.

A Guy That We (The Bride And Groom) Had Never Met Before Proposed To His Girlfriend At Our Wedding

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So we were curious to hear just how often the happy couple actually plans for the sort of things on display in this list. “Now, when planning a wedding, you’d think maybe couples would consider these disasters, but surprisingly, wedding crashers or misbehaving guests aren’t always top of mind.”

“I Just Thought Your Wedding Was The Perfect Place For My Child’s Birthday Party”

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A Guest Filled 7 Tupperware Containers With Food From The Wedding Reception And Gave The Couple 5 USD As A Gift

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She was willing to provide some resources in case someone needed some extra help planning. “We always recommend couples to plan their wedding well, also for horrible events like the ones above. For example, they can read thisbride’s tips on how to throw a wedding your guests will love.”

I Went To A Wedding And Found A Decent Seat With A Good View. This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her

Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centerpieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Mother’s Best Friend’s Child

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Lastly, we wanted to hear if she believed weddings bring out drama in both the guests and couples alike. “Definitely! weddings do seem to have this strange effect on people. It’s like theheightened emotions, the romantic energy, the pressure to look perfect… it all simmers together, and for some people, it brings out their inner drama queen (or king).”

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“Think about it: You’ve got family tensions, old exes, bitter bridesmaids, and so much more happening in one place. It’s not surprising that some people snap under all that. The wedding scene is almost like a pressure cooker for drama, and all it takes is one person to tip it over the edge.”

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“And honestly? A bit of drama makes for a way better story afterward. Who wants to remember a perfectly calm and uneventful wedding, anyway? For brides (or grooms) that really get stressed in the days before, we recommend reading our post abouthow to manage pre-wedding stress.”

“Thank You Sooooo Much For Sharing Your Special Day With Us”

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Halfway through a great wedding, I see my dad’s best friend hauling a drunk couple out of the reception. We thought it was hilarious and thought nothing more of it until today when they opened their gifts and found a card from “Uncle David and Aunt Nancy”. There’s no David or Nancy in either family and the underlined bits are just in-your-face trolling.“Cheers to a life filled with many special memories. We feel so blessed to have been witness to your beautiful wedding. We wish you all the best in life!”

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Someone Stole A $300 Gift Card From Our Card Table At The End Of Our Reception

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“Sorry, i’m strapped for cash trying to start my own business - if you’re interested in feeling better through natural nutrition in 30 days money back guarantee, let me know… I’ll ship you info or products postage free!Thanks for the invite!”

My Mom Was Going Through Her Old Wedding Mementos And Found This Response Card From A Relative. How Tacky Can You Get?

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Wedding Guest I’ve Never Met, Insulted We Won’t Let Her Stay In The “Honey Moon Suite” With Us (The Bride And Groom)

Friend Gifted His Bride Professional Pictures Of Only Himself

Wait, What? The Crossed Out Name Is Her Husband

From A Wedding Shaming Group I’m In. Bride And Groom Requested A Childfree Wedding. Entitled Guest Writes This Message On Their Invitation

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My Aunt Texted Us To Say That The Children Were Invited To My Cousin’s Destination Wedding After All, And Today My Cousin Called Everyone To Tell Us That Was Not The Case

I am ok with this bit. I feel his demands are too excessive and demanding. For reference, I haven’t seen him in 5 years. I got these messages out of the blue, and the wedding is in a week.

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Bride Has To Have A Child Free Wedding, Especially With New Restrictions On Guest Count. Guest Demands To Bring Their Son (18) Daughter (23), 3 Grandchildren, And A Dog To The Wedding

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