Call it engagement, fulfillment, or happiness, but a workplace can have a huge impact on our well-being and sense of purpose.However, there are plenty of potential detractors that can make even an enjoyable job a living hell, such as a lack of recognition,a messed up work-life balance, and, of course, toxic colleagues.So, in an attempt to remind you just how important the people around us are, we at Bored Panda have put together a collection of annoying employees who do nothing but test everyone’s patience.This post may includeaffiliate links.
Call it engagement, fulfillment, or happiness, but a workplace can have a huge impact on our well-being and sense of purpose.
However, there are plenty of potential detractors that can make even an enjoyable job a living hell, such as a lack of recognition,a messed up work-life balance, and, of course, toxic colleagues.
So, in an attempt to remind you just how important the people around us are, we at Bored Panda have put together a collection of annoying employees who do nothing but test everyone’s patience.
This post may includeaffiliate links.
Psychologist Daniel Goleman, author of the bestselling book ‘Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ,’ says that handling these colleagues has less to do with how you treat them and more to do with how you prepare yourself.
The most important things, Goleman points out, are self-awareness and self-management.
A few weeks ago I decided to grab some dinner with a coworker. I rarely go out to eat as it’s so expensive these days, but I finally decided to treat myself one night. My coworker ordered appetizers for herself, multiple drinks, a larger dinner and even dessert. When it came time to pay, we were each going to just pay for our food but she conveniently forgot her wallet and just sat there staring at me. I’m an awkward person and I really didn’t want to cover her food in the moment because it was more than I could even afford but it was such a weird situation and she promised to pay me back, so to just end the evening I covered her bill expecting to get reimbursed.That was weeks ago and she keep posting on social media about going out to fancy restaurants or weekend trips but she always has an excuse when I ask to be paid back. I barely make a livable wage and being in the red because of her has caused me so much anxiety, I feel like such an idiot.
“It’s important to know what you’re feeling and how it shapes your perceptions, your motivations, your actions, and whether it harms your performance or not,” the psychologist says.“This leads you to recognize what is going on.“By identifying what exactly triggers us, we can better anticipate them and regulate ourselves.
“It’s important to know what you’re feeling and how it shapes your perceptions, your motivations, your actions, and whether it harms your performance or not,” the psychologist says.
“This leads you to recognize what is going on.”
By identifying what exactly triggers us, we can better anticipate them and regulate ourselves.
My next step is to write breast milk.
If these things persist and take a considerable toll on us, Goleman suggests giving yourself a little pep talk before going into the office.“Okay, I’m going to spend two hours with this person who I know triggers me. It’s just this person, it’s not me. And I don’t have to react,” he gives an example.You can also “prepare your physiology” with various practices, such as box breathing.“This actually shifts your physiology from sympathetic nervous system arousal, which is the stress and anxiety mode, to parasympathetic, which is the relax and recover mode,” he says.
If these things persist and take a considerable toll on us, Goleman suggests giving yourself a little pep talk before going into the office.
“Okay, I’m going to spend two hours with this person who I know triggers me. It’s just this person, it’s not me. And I don’t have to react,” he gives an example.
You can also “prepare your physiology” with various practices, such as box breathing.
“This actually shifts your physiology from sympathetic nervous system arousal, which is the stress and anxiety mode, to parasympathetic, which is the relax and recover mode,” he says.
By recognizing how our annoying coworker bothers us and preparing to deal with them, we can recover more quickly.“You can’t control what in life is going to trigger you,” Goleman says. “But you can control how long you stay triggered and how long you are upset.”
By recognizing how our annoying coworker bothers us and preparing to deal with them, we can recover more quickly.
“You can’t control what in life is going to trigger you,” Goleman says. “But you can control how long you stay triggered and how long you are upset.”
I’m a head closer so I cannot leave until all of the work is done or I get in trouble. I’m going to be letting my boss know tomorrow when he asks why I was there an hour over my scheduled time.
The study also discovered that 62% of respondents face their annoying coworkers directly in the office, making it the top spot for these frustrations.But it doesn’t end there. Bothersome colleagues appear no matter if you’re working in-person or remotely.Written communication, such as emails and Slack messages, is a significant source of annoyance for 44% of employees. Furthermore, annoying coworkers can also ruin phone calls (37%) and video calls (29%).
The study also discovered that 62% of respondents face their annoying coworkers directly in the office, making it the top spot for these frustrations.
But it doesn’t end there. Bothersome colleagues appear no matter if you’re working in-person or remotely.
Written communication, such as emails and Slack messages, is a significant source of annoyance for 44% of employees. Furthermore, annoying coworkers can also ruin phone calls (37%) and video calls (29%).
I work at a national auto parts retailer. There’s only a handful of spots to start with then there’s this to deal with.
When faced with behaviors you see in the pics, the biggest share of people — 32% to be precise — prefer to distance themselves from the culprit. I guess we really really are conflict-avoidant!For more, check out our previous publications50 People Share Just How Annoying Their Coworkers Really Areand50 People Having A Miserable Day Thanks To Their Evil Coworkers.
When faced with behaviors you see in the pics, the biggest share of people — 32% to be precise — prefer to distance themselves from the culprit. I guess we really really are conflict-avoidant!
For more, check out our previous publications50 People Share Just How Annoying Their Coworkers Really Areand50 People Having A Miserable Day Thanks To Their Evil Coworkers.
I don’t even mind that someone made a coffee with milk, but what bothers me is that this person left a mess behind for someone else to clean up, and no one is admitting that they did it.
Finally got cold, went looking for my mug and found it like this. This is as clean as I could get it.
I work at a front desk, so have to share the same one and this is the 2nd time he’s done it. He claims he takes it out when he eats.
The note says: “It’s no big deal to meet out here, but when you are done, please put the chair back and don’t leave it blocking my door. Thank you!”
It looks like this every day. The dishwasher is directly next to this sink. Are my coworkers this lazy? Do they not realize there is not a maid here to clean up after them? Or just completely disrespectful?
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She’s a good worker but I am sick of people taking jobs that they have no way to get to or from and expecting me to drive them. This is like the fourth person in a row, and she knew where we were because she did a paid trial shift.
She knows very well that our dishwasher is a glorified sanitizer. Yet she acts surprised every time when nothing comes out clean, even though she refuses to rinse off heavy amounts of food.
We have 5 people here and we share the bathroom with another store next door, so it has to be emptied daily. This was day three of nobody taking it out. There’s no designated trash person, since we share our workspace and bathroom so we all agreed to “take turns”.
That’s solid copper wire from an electrical cable. Plotting my revenge now.
My boss bought us a cheesecake for meeting a sales goal. I cut two beautiful slices out of it and while I was handing them out my coworker butchered it.
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