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“Treat others as you would want them to treat you” is the timeless golden rule. And it’s not just a famous saying – most people actually do expect others to behave like they do themselves. A 2023 studyfoundthat selfish people punish generosity and reward selfish behavior. And, in turn, generous people tend to reward generous behavior.“If everyone around me is selfish, then I’m going to learn to accept selfishness and behave accordingly,” one of the study’s authors, Paul Bogdan, Ph.D.,commentedon his and colleagues' findings. “We show that your judgments of other people’s behavior really depend on how you behave yourself.”
“Treat others as you would want them to treat you” is the timeless golden rule. And it’s not just a famous saying – most people actually do expect others to behave like they do themselves. A 2023 studyfoundthat selfish people punish generosity and reward selfish behavior. And, in turn, generous people tend to reward generous behavior.
“If everyone around me is selfish, then I’m going to learn to accept selfishness and behave accordingly,” one of the study’s authors, Paul Bogdan, Ph.D.,commentedon his and colleagues' findings. “We show that your judgments of other people’s behavior really depend on how you behave yourself.”
This is at the US botanical gardens in DC. Very annoying.
The study also proves that we are drawn towards people who are more like us. As the participants offered to split a pot ofmoneywith each other, those who would give generous offers tended to accept offers from like-minded folks. And those who put their well-being first preferred to share the money with more selfish individuals.
Disclaimer: photos taken safely at a red light!While no picture can capture the essence of this somehow not illegal car lights, I feel like the literal twinkle streaks is a good indicator.This person was behind me (and several others) most of my commute. Lights like this clearly aren’t for the driver’s visibility benefit since many are affixed to trucks requiring a miniature ladder to hop in, so what is the point other than Main Character douchebaggery?
If this list is making you lose all faith in humanity and its generosity, don’t be alarmed. Some research suggests thataltruismis intrinsic in our brains. In 2016, researchers from UCLAfoundthat people might become less giving if an area of their prefrontal cortex is affected.
I never want to be the jerk who honks but they don’t hear/notice me until I’m right up to them. Just trying to go to work.
We also might assume that selfishness leads to earning more money and living a more comfortable life. It’s logical: you dedicate more time to your career,have no children, and focus on your work, and voila – you’re on top of the food chain. However, science says otherwise.
No, it doesn’t hinder the car’s performance. How about I scratch something of yours with my framing hammer and see if you’re annoyed?
When I mentioned it to him, he told me it was “clearly an accident” and said I can “easily buy another one.”
We threw away 55 cookies. The managers didn’t let us take any home because they thought it might “encourage us to purposely make extra”.
Other researchers say that we ought to cut selfish folks some slack. Oftentimes, their behavior is the result of past mistreatment and betrayal. “We are quick to judge people and label them, especially when they behave in a way that appears unacceptable to us,” Dr. Jerabek, president of PsychTests,says. “Maybe that person who cut you off in traffic, that customer who was rude to you, or that nitpicky colleague has more going on in their life than meets the eye.”
We’ve got many more examples of people being inconsiderate in this series of ours. You can find the previous iterations of lists where people are being jerkshere,here,here,here, andhere. And, in the meantime, stay empathetic and considerate – you never know what the other person is going through, even if they’re acting like a jerk. The world could always do with more kindness.
I still had food coming, and they cleared everything off of the table! I mean, I left my keys on the table for exactly this reason! It sucks to eat out alone.
A few weeks ago I decided to grab some dinner with a coworker. I rarely if ever go out to eat as its so expensive these days but I finally decided to treat myself one night. My coworker ordered appetizers for herself, multiple drinks, a larger dinner and even dessert. When it came time to pay we were each going to just pay for our food but she conveniently forgot her wallet and just kinda sat there staring at me. I’m an awkward person and I really didn’t want to even cover her food in the moment because it was more than I could even afford but it was such a weird situation and she promised to pay me back so to just end the evening I covered her bill expecting to get reimbursed. Now that was weeks ago and she keep posting on insta and snapchat about going out to fancy restaurants or weekend trips but she always has an excuse when I ask to be paid back. I BARELY make a livable wage and being in the red because of her has caused me so much anxiety, I feel like such an idiot.
There were no free squat racks and this guy would do 3 reps then walk around and talk to other people for 5 minutes before doing another set.
This is the third time now, they eat it even out of my own containers. I have no idea what to do anymore the manager won’t do anything about it.
Putting towels down on a bunch of beach chairs and then leaving for a few hours.
I was on the other side of the theater but noticed he was on one when I came in.It was a pretty big theater and I could see a faint light once the movie started but I kind of thought it was just an aisle light.When I went to leave I noticed he was still on it. Took this as the credits rolled.Note: he also had earbuds in but took them out right before the picture.
I honestly had been avoiding her suggestion because I didn’t wanna risk something like this happening but she put me on the spot at a cookout and I said screw it.He openly was bragging about getting drunk and destroying his Xbox/PC/ and some windows at my aunt’s house after I had given him the guitar so I can’t say I’m surprised I got it back like this.
I literally did nothing to anyone this entire month, I didn’t even speak to people, I ate my pizza in peace and I came back to this horrible solid metal contraption parasite latched onto my bag.
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I didn’t write this note, but the tenant who did is a hero. It’s been so annoying having to send every package to my parents’ instead of to my home
It’s 9:30 PM CDT. The office doesn’t open until next morning. I’ve already sent them an email about this. The laundromat has been locked out of nowhere for the past several months and the office hasn’t been given any reason why they’re locked other than maintenance. I set a timer on my phone when I need to pick up my laundry from the washer or the dryer and this is what happens when I’m a few minutes too late I guess.
Purchased a box of 48 bars for $2 a bar for my daughter’s Karate fundraiser and this is the best the Mars company can do.
Between the ER last night when she accidentally dislodged her neck brace dealing with her cat, then her PCP this morning, about a dozen medical professionals failed to notice her aspen collar was in backward and completely covering her mouth.
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