Heirlooms and traditions are meant to beprotectedand respected. They’re what help connect all the different generations in your family tree with a shared heritage. Not only that, but they’re often very physical reminders of the people we love who have passed on.Bored Pandahas collected some of the most impressive and unusual examples offamilyheirlooms ever from all around the internet. It’s proof that you don’t have to inherit a chest full of jewels and gold doubloons for something to be valuable. Scroll down to see what some families’ legacies look like.Bored Panda reached out to Jodi Wellman, MAPP, for a chat about leaving behind heirlooms and positive legacies for our heirs. She was kind enough to answer our questions and you’ll find her insights as you read on! Wellman is aspeaker,author, and leadership coach, as well as the founder of’Four Thousand Mondays.‘This post may includeaffiliate links.
Heirlooms and traditions are meant to beprotectedand respected. They’re what help connect all the different generations in your family tree with a shared heritage. Not only that, but they’re often very physical reminders of the people we love who have passed on.
Bored Pandahas collected some of the most impressive and unusual examples offamilyheirlooms ever from all around the internet. It’s proof that you don’t have to inherit a chest full of jewels and gold doubloons for something to be valuable. Scroll down to see what some families’ legacies look like.
Bored Panda reached out to Jodi Wellman, MAPP, for a chat about leaving behind heirlooms and positive legacies for our heirs. She was kind enough to answer our questions and you’ll find her insights as you read on! Wellman is aspeaker,author, and leadership coach, as well as the founder of’Four Thousand Mondays.’
This post may includeaffiliate links.
Many of us have lots of possessions that we could potentially pass on to our relatives because we think they’re valuable. However, some of those items might be clutter that we simply have a hard time letting go of because we’ve been around it for so long. We asked Wellman, the founder of’Four Thousand Mondays,‘about how we can tell if an object is truly meaningful.“From a practical standpoint, if you’re unsure of the financial value of an item, get an expert to appraise it. For most of us, we’re more concerned with the emotional value of an item, and we need to learn to be okay that we probably won’t offend the ghosts of our ancestors if we donate their lace tablecloths,” she told Bored Panda in an email.“When in doubt, play the ‘Will I Regret This’ game with yourself; if you donate Uncle Hector’s hubcap collection, for example, will you wake up with a sinking feeling of regret? Or will you generally feel okay with yourself? If it’s not worth much, donate it or sell it and get it out of the house.”
Many of us have lots of possessions that we could potentially pass on to our relatives because we think they’re valuable. However, some of those items might be clutter that we simply have a hard time letting go of because we’ve been around it for so long. We asked Wellman, the founder of’Four Thousand Mondays,‘about how we can tell if an object is truly meaningful.
“From a practical standpoint, if you’re unsure of the financial value of an item, get an expert to appraise it. For most of us, we’re more concerned with the emotional value of an item, and we need to learn to be okay that we probably won’t offend the ghosts of our ancestors if we donate their lace tablecloths,” she told Bored Panda in an email.
“When in doubt, play the ‘Will I Regret This’ game with yourself; if you donate Uncle Hector’s hubcap collection, for example, will you wake up with a sinking feeling of regret? Or will you generally feel okay with yourself? If it’s not worth much, donate it or sell it and get it out of the house.”
According to Wellman, one of the best ways to determine if we should keep something that we think is precious is to ask the person we’re saving it for. This cuts out a lot of guesswork and gets straight to the center of the issue. You could, for instance, ask them: “Would you like your great-grandmother’s tea set from 1912?““If your apparent heirs roll their eyes, maybe you sell the tea set at a consignment store. Ask your next of kin what they’d like to hold onto for sentimental or financial reasons, and then purge what you can muster.“Wellman explained to Bored Panda that we don’t need fancy things to pass down to our heirs. “A positive legacy is a transmission of personal values; it’s how others approach their lives as a result of having gotten to experience us,” she said.
According to Wellman, one of the best ways to determine if we should keep something that we think is precious is to ask the person we’re saving it for. This cuts out a lot of guesswork and gets straight to the center of the issue. You could, for instance, ask them: “Would you like your great-grandmother’s tea set from 1912?”
“If your apparent heirs roll their eyes, maybe you sell the tea set at a consignment store. Ask your next of kin what they’d like to hold onto for sentimental or financial reasons, and then purge what you can muster.”
Wellman explained to Bored Panda that we don’t need fancy things to pass down to our heirs. “A positive legacy is a transmission of personal values; it’s how others approach their lives as a result of having gotten to experience us,” she said.
Not sure of the year they married, but my grandfather was born (in wedlock) in 1908, so the ring and box are 113+ years old! The box is as fascinating as the ring. It is leather, velvet-lined, hinged, and secured with a latch hook. Most importantly to me, inside the ring, alongside the Maker’s Marks, is the inscription “With Harry’s Love”.
For some deep dives about living life to the fullest, feel free to take a look at Wellman’s’Four Thousand Mondays’website. You can also use hercalculatorto see how many Mondays you have left to live. It quickly helps put your goals and priorities into perspective.
Some backstory behind this: my grandfather died before I was born. My family always told me how genuinely nice and cool he was, even to strangers. Growing up, whenever I visited my grandparents’ house, I would see a shelf proudly displaying his collection. My grandmother passed away when I was 18 or 19, and none of my father’s six siblings or my father himself were going to claim the collection of sharpeners. I couldn’t let it go to waste.
No matter how wonderful orextravagantinheritances can be, they can be emotionally messy and physically tiring to sort out. First of all, you’re likely still mourning the loss of a loved one. If you were particularly close, you will need lots of time and support to accept what has happened, to heal, and continue living your life. So, you’re probably not even thinking about what heirlooms they left you in their will.
To my surprise, it’s made from uranium glass.
If your relative was a particularly energetic collector (or had a gentle inclination toward hoarding), you might find yourself having to sort through boxes and boxes of things.Some of these items might be historically valuable, and you’d like to keep them. Others might have had a deep sentimental value to their original owner that might be lost on you.But the reality is that many of the things you’ve inherited may have no real place in your home. You might not want them, or they might simply not (physically) fit at home. And holding on to hundreds of things out of guilt is no way to go through life.Some of the items you find while sorting through your loved one’s home might be worth selling or donating to charity if they’re in good enough condition. Others, inevitably, might have to be thrown away… or subtly given to your other relatives to see if they’d like them.
If your relative was a particularly energetic collector (or had a gentle inclination toward hoarding), you might find yourself having to sort through boxes and boxes of things.
Some of these items might be historically valuable, and you’d like to keep them. Others might have had a deep sentimental value to their original owner that might be lost on you.
But the reality is that many of the things you’ve inherited may have no real place in your home. You might not want them, or they might simply not (physically) fit at home. And holding on to hundreds of things out of guilt is no way to go through life.
Some of the items you find while sorting through your loved one’s home might be worth selling or donating to charity if they’re in good enough condition. Others, inevitably, might have to be thrown away… or subtly given to your other relatives to see if they’d like them.
Stanley is indeed their family name. His great-grandfather was John T. Stanley, who emigrated from England to the United States in 1860 at the age of 17. He was skilled in soap and candle making at the time however, his first job was in collecting animal fat from around the city. Now my history of how he parlayed this trade into soap making is a bit hazy at the moment but I’ll be sure to get the full story after we blow out some candles on my father-in-law’s cake.
Some of these things he had since he was barely out of diapers. There are so many gems here.
AARP suggestsgoing through your family photo albums one at a time to figure out which pictures your relatives may want to keep in the future. From our perspective, all photos are valuable. However, from a practical standpoint, you need to prioritize what you leave behind if you have dozens and dozens of albums.
By request, here is the other piece of jewelry from my great-great-grandmother! Unfortunately, there are no maker marks on this one or that’s the case, either.
At the end of the day, you choose what to do with your inheritance. If you’ve been handed down a gorgeous signet ring, massive family photo album, gilded spellbook, stylish car, high-quality tools, or a magical sword, then everything’s pretty clear: you take good care of these items until you can pass them on to the next generation.In this case, it’s very obvious that these items have a long and storied history that’s worth preserving.
At the end of the day, you choose what to do with your inheritance. If you’ve been handed down a gorgeous signet ring, massive family photo album, gilded spellbook, stylish car, high-quality tools, or a magical sword, then everything’s pretty clear: you take good care of these items until you can pass them on to the next generation.
In this case, it’s very obvious that these items have a long and storied history that’s worth preserving.
It allows you to select which cocktail you want to make, and it even tells you which ingredients and quantities you need.
It can be a huge help if the person leaving behind their things mentions what is and isn’t important and why in their will. It’s easy to assume that absolutely everyone will know not to throw away a respected family heirloom, but not everyone might know their own history in such detail.If the heirloom is slightly unusual (like a vintage toaster, quality iron waffle maker, or old-timey radio), you might need some guidance and a gentle reminder that what you have is genuinely good, even if it doesn’t glitter like gold.
It can be a huge help if the person leaving behind their things mentions what is and isn’t important and why in their will. It’s easy to assume that absolutely everyone will know not to throw away a respected family heirloom, but not everyone might know their own history in such detail.
If the heirloom is slightly unusual (like a vintage toaster, quality iron waffle maker, or old-timey radio), you might need some guidance and a gentle reminder that what you have is genuinely good, even if it doesn’t glitter like gold.
All that being said, it’s a reminder that you shouldn’t rely just on your will to remind everyone that your family has an important legacy to preserve. It’s very important to maintain this living knowledge throughout your life. A big part of that is doing research into your family’s roots, recounting stories from the past, and maintainingfamily traditions.
It’s not quite 100, but it will be in the next year. My great-grandfather purchased it new. I remember eating waffles fresh out of it at my grandmother’s house thirty years ago. My mom has had it for the past fifteen years and decided to gift it to me this Christmas, as she knows I love cast iron cookery.
Now, the family traditions themselves don’t have to be anything overly elaborate—though they can be! What’s important is that your family has traditions and you all get together, not the specific details of how you do things. Getting together for a meal every Sunday can be a wonderful tradition.It might even eventually turn your pancake pan or waffle maker into veterans of a thousand brunches and highly coveted heirlooms. However, keep in mind that the items themselves have to be made of quality materials and with excellent craftsmanship to stand the test of time.
Now, the family traditions themselves don’t have to be anything overly elaborate—though they can be! What’s important is that your family has traditions and you all get together, not the specific details of how you do things. Getting together for a meal every Sunday can be a wonderful tradition.
It might even eventually turn your pancake pan or waffle maker into veterans of a thousand brunches and highly coveted heirlooms. However, keep in mind that the items themselves have to be made of quality materials and with excellent craftsmanship to stand the test of time.
Recently, I showed my mom and aunt (her daughters), and neither had ever seen it before. I’m guessing it’s a treasure my grandfather brought home from his Navy or Merchant Marine adventures. Initially, I thought it was costume jewelry, goldtone cloisonne. However, I recently discovered it’s 22k solid gold, enamel-painted, made in Spain in the 1940s or 1950s, which is why I think my grandfather had a hand in this. My grandmother likely gifted it to me because I’m a total water, beach, boat, and fish lover! I’ve never seen anything like it, but I’m hoping someone else has. Isn’t he funky and fierce? Look at those teeth!
This crystal ball was passed down from my great-grandmother to my nana and now to me. It’s my most prized possession that I can’t stop looking at. I also love the stand that my nana got - three meerkats!
My birthstone is sapphire as well, so this is extra special to me.We even had our house robbed, but they missed it, thank goodness.
His father was not the photographer - the photographs were mailed to him from the infamous “PO Box 1663” in Santa Fe and were taken at Bikini Atoll.His dad went to Notre Dame, MIT, and USC, and had degrees in chemical engineering, architectural engineering, and nuclear physics.
My dad used them while flying helicopters in the Army, then in the National Guard. I adapted them for use when I maintenance taxi commercial aircraft for a major airline. They still sound great and will probably outlast me as well.
I used it decoratively until I realized that it accepted 4x5 sheet film without modification. Now, it’s my go-to, large-format film camera.
I teach 5th and 6th grade math.I have no idea how old it is, but it’s certainly older than all the students and even some of the teachers.
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My mom got this car as a gift for my dad before I was born (1980s). It only came out on special occasions, sometimes for him to take my mom on a beautiful sunny day date, and it has never seen the rain. It’s bittersweet that it’s now mine. I have great memories riding around in it with him. I’m so honored to take care of it.
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It’s too late to ask them now. But the compass still points to magnetic north after 99 years!
My dad thinks it may have been satin black originally… Is there any hope of removing the paint to get the original finish?
All drawers slide out flawlessly, and it’s built like a tank. All I had to do was run a wire wheel on some rusty corners and give it a bit of paint. Here’s to 60 more years with this thing!
My dad’s Woolrich outerwear has kept me warm on many cold hunting days. It’s extremely functional and has endured years of walking through brambles and brush. The buffalo check plaid is easy for other hunters to see. Deer can’t see red, so it breaks up the silhouette and serves as effective and quiet camouflage.My dad is okay, he just outgrew it.Featuring a thrifted HBC eight-point blanket.
Does anyone know anything about this? My grandfather lived in Iran and had this since I remember and he passed away at 100 years old in 2020. The stones seem like they are turquoise and maybe agate. Any information is appreciated.
I believe it’s from the ‘86 season. I could be wrong though.
It has gotten me through several harsh cold snaps during winter as supplemental heat in my bedroom. Bathing in its warmth right now.
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