48 Disastrous Weddings That Were Too Bad Not To Shame Online (New Pics)

They say it’s not where you are but who you’re with that matters, and I think this phrase applies to weddings, too. Of course, there is a difference between a grand ceremony on the beach and quick get-together in someone’s backyard, but a super tacky best man and a crazy alcoholic aunt could destroy the atmosphere of either event.To drive this point home, the members of the subreddit ‘Wedding Shaming’ are sharing the cringiest moments they’ve witnessed on people’s big day. Judging from their posts, it seems like there are endless opportunities to ruin not just photos, but the memories as well—if you’re inconsiderate enough.Continue scrolling to check them out and don’t miss the chat we had with etiquette expertDiane Gottsman.This post may includeaffiliate links.However, couples are often under a lot of pressure when they’re planning and throwing their wedding. There’s a myriad of decisions to be made, from choosing a venue to managing the guest lists, and the whole process can become (a little) overwhelming.So, we askedDiane Gottsman, an internationally renowned etiquette expert and founder ofthe Protocol School of Texas, whose clients range from university students to Fortune 500 companies' leaders, which of these challenges are the most pressing in 2025.“Budget is always an issue because the number of guests couples want to invite may not be able to coincide with their finances,” she toldBored Panda. “It’s important to not overextend yourself. Invite the people that are really important to you and don’t feel pressure to invite those who are [merely] asking for an invitation, or that extended family suggest you invite.“RELATED:To avoid drama and some of the problems we see in these pictures, couples should remember to consider everyone else’s point of view.“It’s the bride and groom’s big day. It’s their responsibility, however, to greet every guest so each guest will remember the moment and feel welcome,” Gottsman, author of the bookModern Etiquette for a Better Life, said.Smiling at others and enjoying their company is easier when you take care of your own needs first, so rest well before the ceremony and set yourself up for success.“Eat before the ceremony [too]. Have a little nibble so you aren’t famished,” Gottsman added.These things might seem inconsequential, but you know how grumpy we can be when we’re not feeling our best.It’s only fair to remain mindful of your wedding guests, as many of them make quite the effort to be there for you.According to a 2024surveyfrom LendingTree, 43% of wedding guests spend an average of $100 to $499 to attend each blessed event. Another 29% spend an average of at least $500, while 12% dish out at least $1,000.Many weddings require guests totravel—an expense they’re typically expected to shoulder.But most guests think their presence isn’t enough to count as a present: 91% of such attendees say they feel pressure to get the couple a gift as well, and 67% did.Such gifts are part of the reason why people even go into debt to attend weddings — and some take on quite the commitment.Of everyone who has taken on this kind of debt, 23% took on $2,500 or more. Fortunately, more guests (43%) took on less than $1,000.But if there was one piece of advice Diane Gottsman would give to the engaged, it’s to try not to stress too much.“All weddings have highs and lows and what makes it great is understanding the importance of the ceremony as opposed to it being a perfect Instagram photo,” she said.If you legitimately care about the event and everyone in attendance, you will find a way to make it fun and enjoyable.For more wedding shaming, check outour earlier publication on the subreddit.Continue reading with Bored Panda PremiumUnlimited contentAd-free browsingDark modeSubscribe nowAlready a subscriber?Sign InSee Also on Bored PandaSee Also on Bored PandaSee Also on Bored PandaModal closeAdd New ImageModal closeAdd Your Photo To This ListPlease use high-res photos without watermarksOoops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB.Not your original work?Add sourcePublish

To drive this point home, the members of the subreddit ‘Wedding Shaming’ are sharing the cringiest moments they’ve witnessed on people’s big day. Judging from their posts, it seems like there are endless opportunities to ruin not just photos, but the memories as well—if you’re inconsiderate enough.

Continue scrolling to check them out and don’t miss the chat we had with etiquette expertDiane Gottsman.

This post may includeaffiliate links.

However, couples are often under a lot of pressure when they’re planning and throwing their wedding. There’s a myriad of decisions to be made, from choosing a venue to managing the guest lists, and the whole process can become (a little) overwhelming.So, we askedDiane Gottsman, an internationally renowned etiquette expert and founder ofthe Protocol School of Texas, whose clients range from university students to Fortune 500 companies' leaders, which of these challenges are the most pressing in 2025.“Budget is always an issue because the number of guests couples want to invite may not be able to coincide with their finances,” she toldBored Panda. “It’s important to not overextend yourself. Invite the people that are really important to you and don’t feel pressure to invite those who are [merely] asking for an invitation, or that extended family suggest you invite.“RELATED:To avoid drama and some of the problems we see in these pictures, couples should remember to consider everyone else’s point of view.“It’s the bride and groom’s big day. It’s their responsibility, however, to greet every guest so each guest will remember the moment and feel welcome,” Gottsman, author of the bookModern Etiquette for a Better Life, said.Smiling at others and enjoying their company is easier when you take care of your own needs first, so rest well before the ceremony and set yourself up for success.“Eat before the ceremony [too]. Have a little nibble so you aren’t famished,” Gottsman added.These things might seem inconsequential, but you know how grumpy we can be when we’re not feeling our best.It’s only fair to remain mindful of your wedding guests, as many of them make quite the effort to be there for you.According to a 2024surveyfrom LendingTree, 43% of wedding guests spend an average of $100 to $499 to attend each blessed event. Another 29% spend an average of at least $500, while 12% dish out at least $1,000.Many weddings require guests totravel—an expense they’re typically expected to shoulder.But most guests think their presence isn’t enough to count as a present: 91% of such attendees say they feel pressure to get the couple a gift as well, and 67% did.Such gifts are part of the reason why people even go into debt to attend weddings — and some take on quite the commitment.Of everyone who has taken on this kind of debt, 23% took on $2,500 or more. Fortunately, more guests (43%) took on less than $1,000.But if there was one piece of advice Diane Gottsman would give to the engaged, it’s to try not to stress too much.“All weddings have highs and lows and what makes it great is understanding the importance of the ceremony as opposed to it being a perfect Instagram photo,” she said.If you legitimately care about the event and everyone in attendance, you will find a way to make it fun and enjoyable.For more wedding shaming, check outour earlier publication on the subreddit.Continue reading with Bored Panda PremiumUnlimited contentAd-free browsingDark modeSubscribe nowAlready a subscriber?Sign InSee Also on Bored PandaSee Also on Bored PandaSee Also on Bored Panda

Wedding date ad seeking attentive companion for mother-in-law, offering $1,000, with job expectations and perks listed.

So, we askedDiane Gottsman, an internationally renowned etiquette expert and founder ofthe Protocol School of Texas, whose clients range from university students to Fortune 500 companies' leaders, which of these challenges are the most pressing in 2025.

“Budget is always an issue because the number of guests couples want to invite may not be able to coincide with their finances,” she toldBored Panda. “It’s important to not overextend yourself. Invite the people that are really important to you and don’t feel pressure to invite those who are [merely] asking for an invitation, or that extended family suggest you invite.”

Victorian wedding photo with bride, groom, and seated woman beside a bust, exemplifying unusual weddings shared online.

A couple embracing at a wedding ceremony with onlookers, highlighting a chaotic wedding moment.

Man sweeping red spill at chaotic wedding scene outside venue.

To avoid drama and some of the problems we see in these pictures, couples should remember to consider everyone else’s point of view.“It’s the bride and groom’s big day. It’s their responsibility, however, to greet every guest so each guest will remember the moment and feel welcome,” Gottsman, author of the bookModern Etiquette for a Better Life, said.Smiling at others and enjoying their company is easier when you take care of your own needs first, so rest well before the ceremony and set yourself up for success.“Eat before the ceremony [too]. Have a little nibble so you aren’t famished,” Gottsman added.These things might seem inconsequential, but you know how grumpy we can be when we’re not feeling our best.

To avoid drama and some of the problems we see in these pictures, couples should remember to consider everyone else’s point of view.

“It’s the bride and groom’s big day. It’s their responsibility, however, to greet every guest so each guest will remember the moment and feel welcome,” Gottsman, author of the bookModern Etiquette for a Better Life, said.

Smiling at others and enjoying their company is easier when you take care of your own needs first, so rest well before the ceremony and set yourself up for success.

“Eat before the ceremony [too]. Have a little nibble so you aren’t famished,” Gottsman added.

These things might seem inconsequential, but you know how grumpy we can be when we’re not feeling our best.

A groom in goggles at a wedding with a scenic mountain backdrop, bride holding bouquet, showcasing unusual wedding moments.

Two brides in white gowns standing side by side on a wooden deck at a wedding ceremony.

A bride wearing an elegant, vintage-style white wedding dress with lace details and cap sleeves.

It’s only fair to remain mindful of your wedding guests, as many of them make quite the effort to be there for you.According to a 2024surveyfrom LendingTree, 43% of wedding guests spend an average of $100 to $499 to attend each blessed event. Another 29% spend an average of at least $500, while 12% dish out at least $1,000.

It’s only fair to remain mindful of your wedding guests, as many of them make quite the effort to be there for you.

According to a 2024surveyfrom LendingTree, 43% of wedding guests spend an average of $100 to $499 to attend each blessed event. Another 29% spend an average of at least $500, while 12% dish out at least $1,000.

Guest at a wedding wearing a bold, floral outfit with a tattoo visible, sitting in a row of chairs outdoors.

Social media post listing unrealistic requirements for a wedding photographer.

A tweet discusses disturbing wedding traditions, with a group of men in traditional attire attending a ceremony.

Email screenshot showing wedding photography negotiation about budget issues.

Many weddings require guests totravel—an expense they’re typically expected to shoulder.But most guests think their presence isn’t enough to count as a present: 91% of such attendees say they feel pressure to get the couple a gift as well, and 67% did.

Many weddings require guests totravel—an expense they’re typically expected to shoulder.

But most guests think their presence isn’t enough to count as a present: 91% of such attendees say they feel pressure to get the couple a gift as well, and 67% did.

“Car with ‘Just Married’ sign and honeymoon donation request, highlighting a unique wedding moment."

Wedding buffet with snacks and fruits on two tables with white tablecloths in a rustic setting.

Wedding arrangement message offering exposure instead of payment for art illustration services.

Bride in green dress and mother of the groom in purple at a wedding with blurred family members.

Such gifts are part of the reason why people even go into debt to attend weddings — and some take on quite the commitment.Of everyone who has taken on this kind of debt, 23% took on $2,500 or more. Fortunately, more guests (43%) took on less than $1,000.

Such gifts are part of the reason why people even go into debt to attend weddings — and some take on quite the commitment.

Of everyone who has taken on this kind of debt, 23% took on $2,500 or more. Fortunately, more guests (43%) took on less than $1,000.

Person in gold dress with mixed emoji faces at a wedding, indoor floral and pillar decoration.

Unconventional wedding cake with Jeep and American flag design topped by a bride and groom figurine.

Couple at an outdoor wedding, one in casual attire and the other in a lace dress, under a gazebo.

Bride feeling upset about wedding gift money, holding cash with a disappointed expression, text describing wedding debt.

But if there was one piece of advice Diane Gottsman would give to the engaged, it’s to try not to stress too much.“All weddings have highs and lows and what makes it great is understanding the importance of the ceremony as opposed to it being a perfect Instagram photo,” she said.If you legitimately care about the event and everyone in attendance, you will find a way to make it fun and enjoyable.For more wedding shaming, check outour earlier publication on the subreddit.

But if there was one piece of advice Diane Gottsman would give to the engaged, it’s to try not to stress too much.

“All weddings have highs and lows and what makes it great is understanding the importance of the ceremony as opposed to it being a perfect Instagram photo,” she said.

If you legitimately care about the event and everyone in attendance, you will find a way to make it fun and enjoyable.

For more wedding shaming, check outour earlier publication on the subreddit.

Couple at a wedding, woman in white dress holding a wine glass; a moment from unfortunate weddings shared online.

Wedding rules signs in a shopping cart, highlighting humorous bride and groom guidelines.

Text post discussing wedding attire issues with fiancé’s brother’s condition causing conflict.

Woman at wedding wearing a frayed denim jacket over a peach ruffled dress, arm linked with a suited individual.

Wedding dollar dance alternatives list with humorous and interactive ideas for guests during the reception.

Wedding rules list with humorous guidelines, emphasizing celebration behavior and dress code.

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Text about a bachelorette party disappointment at Disney World, shared in a bad wedding experience post.

Facebook post describing a wild wedding with unforgettable moments, emphasizing its chaotic nature.

Bridesmaid wearing mask in wedding photos, causing disappointment over indoor shots.

Wedding announcement email with key details pinked out.