45 Times People Wrote Such Hilarious Apology Notes, Recipients Just Had To Share Them

I’m a firm believer that actions speak louder than words. So if someone has hurt my feelings, a simplesorryisn’t always going to be enough to earn back my trust. I appreciate it, but only time (and actions) will tell if the apology was truly sincere.So if you’re looking to speed up the process of earningforgiveness, incorporating some humor into your apology might be the perfect way to do it!Below, you’ll find photos of hilarious apology notes thatBored Pandahas compiled from all over the internet. Enjoy scrolling through these silly ways to say sorry, and keep reading to find a conversation withMolly Howes, PhD, author ofA Good Apology: Four Steps to Make Things Right!This post may includeaffiliate links.

Below, you’ll find photos of hilarious apology notes thatBored Pandahas compiled from all over the internet. Enjoy scrolling through these silly ways to say sorry, and keep reading to find a conversation withMolly Howes, PhD, author ofA Good Apology: Four Steps to Make Things Right!

This post may includeaffiliate links.

Two Dogs Couldn’t Resist Eating The Mail Lady’s Lunch, Then Wrote Her This Note

To gain more insight on the topic of apologies, we reached out toMolly Howes, PhD, author ofA Good Apology: Four Steps to Make Things Right, who was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda.When it comes to what’s required to make an effective apology, Molly says, “If you’ve screwed up or made a mistake or hurt someone, what’s most important to bear in mind is how the other person felt. Your apology should express interest in how you affected them, take responsibility for your action/inaction, make recompense or repair, and give assurance that you won’t repeat it.”

To gain more insight on the topic of apologies, we reached out toMolly Howes, PhD, author ofA Good Apology: Four Steps to Make Things Right, who was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda.

When it comes to what’s required to make an effective apology, Molly says, “If you’ve screwed up or made a mistake or hurt someone, what’s most important to bear in mind is how the other person felt. Your apology should express interest in how you affected them, take responsibility for your action/inaction, make recompense or repair, and give assurance that you won’t repeat it.”

Our Doorknob Was Stolen At A Party We Threw Last Weekend. Today, It Shows Back Up With This Note

We were also curious about common mistakes people tend to make while apologizing. “Obvious amends-making mistakes include: blaming the ‘victim,’ (I only did it because of what you said first); making excuses (There was a lot going on/ I was confused), saying ‘but’ or ‘if’ (I’m sorry but you know I didn’t mean it/ I’m sorry if you were hurt), leaving things vague (I’m sorry for what happened), and doing the same thing again,” Molly shared.

It was so thoughtful and sweet! I rarely hear the doggo, and I’m okay with dogs barking. What a wonderful pet owner. I want to set up a doggy gift bag or something for her and her dog. Any ideas?

Received This On My Door This Morning From A Neighbor In My Apartment Complex

When it comes to incorporating humor into an apology, Molly says humor can be a great way to join together or build on common understanding. But it might not always be appropriate. “I expect a common mistake is to be funny too soon, that is, before you know how the other person was actually affected and before they know that you understand,” the expert explained.“You risk hurting a second time because of insensitivity – especially if the humor attempts to minimize the harm done,” Molly continued. “Later, that same funny line could be fine. In general, it’s smart (and kind) to take your lead from the other person’s readiness.”

“You risk hurting a second time because of insensitivity – especially if the humor attempts to minimize the harm done,” Molly continued. “Later, that same funny line could be fine. In general, it’s smart (and kind) to take your lead from the other person’s readiness.”

Three Nights Ago, My Bike Was Stolen. It Just Turned Up Back In My Yard This Morning With This Note. Ain’t Even Mad

Finally, Molly left us with some wise words. “Funny apologies are often terrible as apologies but good as jokes. Serious apologies are also often terrible as apologies and aren’t even funny.”

We Have All Been There

Coworker Slept In Till Noon, This Was His Apology

Makingapologiescan be tough for a variety of reasons, one of which being that you’re never entitled to forgiveness. The right thing to do is fess up to a mistake and inform the other party that you feel guilty, that it won’t happen again and that you’re hoping you can move past it. But it’s up to the receiver of the apology to decide whether or not they accept it. So it’s best to be sincere when making a plea for forgiveness!According toHarvard Health Publishing, there’s an art to giving heartfelt apologies. And step one is understanding where the other person is coming from. If you’re not sure if you actually owe them an apology, be sure to consider the situation from their perspective. Would you be upset?

According toHarvard Health Publishing, there’s an art to giving heartfelt apologies. And step one is understanding where the other person is coming from. If you’re not sure if you actually owe them an apology, be sure to consider the situation from their perspective. Would you be upset?

Parking Note

There Was A Mix-Up With An Item I Ordered From China. The Seller Sent Me A Note And A Little Gift To Tide Me Over Until The Correct Item Arrived. 10/10 Apology

Apology To The Driver Who Beeped

Next, it’s important to be genuine when making an apology. Even if you want to incorporate humor, because you have a closerelationshipwith the person you’re apologizing to or the situation wasn’t very dramatic, you have to mean what you’re saying. To accomplish this, the late psychiatrist Dr. Aaron Lazar believed that a great apology incorporated four elements: acknowledging the offense, explaining what happened, expressing remorse and offering to make amends.

This Apology Note From My Husband

An Apology To My Future Self

Just Some Canadian Graffiti

As with anything else in life, apologies aren’t only about what you’re saying, but alsohowyou’re saying it. “I’m sorry that you feel that way,” sounds very different from “I’m so sorry that I made you feel that way.” Be sure to take responsibility for what exactly happened, and don’t use a passive voice. “Mistakes were made” is not the same as “I made a mistake.” And avoid blaming the other person for their feelings or your behavior.

I Work At A Vet Hospital. An Owner Wrote An Apology Letter For Their Pet

Was Wondering Where This Delivery Went, Then This Turned Up On My Porch

Someone Left A Note In The Bathroom At Work

Another key component of an effective apology is promising to change your behavior in the future. There’s no point in saying that you’re sorry if you plan on acting the exact same way tomorrow. Remember that apologizing is only half of the process. You also have to implement the changes that you promised and work on repairing the damaged relationship. Even if all you did was eat your pregnant wife’s last chocolate bar, you better be sure not to do it again. (And buy her more, so she has a healthy stash on hand!)

Flew Into DIA The Other Day And Saw This Ad. They’re Leaning Into The Conspiracies And I Am Here For It

“I’m sorry you’ve walked in on me making out with your roommate three times and for making your home an uncomfortable place.♡-Hannah”

Apology Cookies

Mailbox Damaged - Found This Note

As painful as apologizing can be,researchshows that genuine apologies can actually increase empathy and forgiveness among victims. A heartfelt apology can even decrease stress levels and reduce heart rate. And while it’s important to know how to make amends effectively, it’s also wise to know whatnotto do when asking for forgiveness.Andrea Bonior, PhD writes forPsychology Todaythat one common mistake people make when asking for forgiveness is “retrying their case,” or attempting to explain why they didn’t actually do anything wrong. This is likely to only make the wound deeper.

Andrea Bonior, PhD writes forPsychology Todaythat one common mistake people make when asking for forgiveness is “retrying their case,” or attempting to explain why they didn’t actually do anything wrong. This is likely to only make the wound deeper.

Someone Spilled Chia Seeds At The Grocery Store I Work At And This Is How They Apologized. And No We Do Not Live In Canada

Thanks, Babe

An Irish Apology

While a great apology requires you to promise that your behavior will change, be careful not to promise anything that you can’t deliver. If you came home late one night and forgot to inform your partner that you would be staying out until 2am, promising that you’ll never go out with friends again just isn’t realistic. Or if you’re uncomfortable with your partner tracking your location, don’t assure them in the heat of the moment that you’ll allow them to track you all the time. Be willing to change, but don’t overpromise. Or you’ll end up issuing a whole new apology soon after the first.

In The Coffee Shop

“Sorry Kids”

My Husband Paid For Breakfast With A Debit Card, Then Realized He Under-Tipped. We Left Some Extra Cash And A Note For Our Server Apologizing For The Oversight