While everyone in life does their best to pick and choose who they hang out with, the folks who happen to livenext doorare generally out of your control. So most people do their best to be polite and cordial, when possible. However, there are always somewhat rude and oftenstrangepeople out there.

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Your husband should say, “you know my wife?” While putting his arm around you. This is more about how he handles it.

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I’d reply as though she greeted me and ask follow up questions. Make her talk. Make her uncomfortable.

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Tell your husband to stop responding. F*ck that. Your husband should’ve already stopped on his own.

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My husband would just ignore her. He don’t acknowledge anyone who don’t acknowledge me. Nothing to do, just let her keep talking to herself until she gets the message. She will either starting greeting us both or none of us. And it wouldn’t matter to us either way.

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Only greet her pets and kids

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Have your husband ignore her like she ignores you. If he doesn’t see she is purposefully disrespectful, have a sit down and figure if he too should be your neighbor.

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Just ignore her/it, not a big deal at all. I trust my husband and honestly I find it flattering she finds him attractive and amusing that’s she’s so petty to greet him and not me. Not something to get upset about or react to at all.

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Say hi. When she says hi to your husband simply call her tf out . “Why you always saying hi to my husband and not me?”

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Your husband is supposed to check her. Y’all are supposed to be a team. One band, one sound.

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That’s when your Husband steps in and say “I’m not sure if you have met my wife …”

40 Examples Of How People Handled Neighbors That Would Only Interact With Their Partners

I’d go out of my way to interact with her and brag about my husband constantly with a big smile on my face.

40 Examples Of How People Handled Neighbors That Would Only Interact With Their Partners

You ignore her existence and keep it moving. Who cares laugh at her for seeking male validation.

40 Examples Of How People Handled Neighbors That Would Only Interact With Their Partners

Hubs needs to dead that immediately. “I appreciate you greeting me, however, it makes me uncomfortable that my wife isn’t included. Since we’re a unit, my greetings will stop after today. Should you want to revisit this conversation in the future, you know how to find us. We both wish you well.”

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Possible she knows his name and not yours? I wouldn’t go ballistic until I was sure it wasn’t something innocuous like that.

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40 Examples Of How People Handled Neighbors That Would Only Interact With Their Partners

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I would simply ask her . Why you always speak to husband and not me ??? If you can’t speak to us both then don’t speak to us at all !!

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I would step in front of my husband in a heartbeat, wave my arms in her face and say hello hello! 😂

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Nothing. Your husband should be the one to just ignore her. You don’t acknowledge my wife, i don’t acknowledge you. Simple

40 Examples Of How People Handled Neighbors That Would Only Interact With Their Partners

I don’t like to ever seem like the insecure gal- so I always choose to have a talk with MY HUSBAND how it makes me feel, or that as women WE KNOW the BS…. And ask him to be the sarcastic one… tell next time she does it to ask if she’s met his wife.. “have you met my wife let me go get her so y’all can talk” or tell him act Iike he ain’t see or hear her. It’s up to him to respect you and honor your feelings and boundaries not the ‘stranger’, because some females have no respect for themselves.

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Make sure that your husband ignores her. He will have to set the tone for how she treats you. And if he is a good husband, he will ignore her until he greets his wife

40 Examples Of How People Handled Neighbors That Would Only Interact With Their Partners

Have your husband make her feel awkward the way she made you feel. Have him just be blunt and tactless and in front of you say… hey neighbor why do you always only say hello to me and not my wife? That’s weird? Then just stand there in awkward silence staring at her while she tries to squirm away. 🤣 Bet she won’t do it again lmao.

40 Examples Of How People Handled Neighbors That Would Only Interact With Their Partners

Ask him if he has ever noticed that she usually greets him but not you and see how he responds. If the next time she does it and he doesn’t correct her or if he speaks then you have your answer. Don’t do anything because he will say you’re over reacting. But if he does correct her then you don’t have to say anything then either because he has established a boundary and denied her access.

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Sounds to me She definitely wants your husband. I’m that woman that would confront her because that is a major form of disrespect. When it comes to men, women will throw another woman under the bus for a man, even if that man belongs to you. I say confront her set your boundaries and if she do it again just simply embarrass her in front of everyone. You don’t even gotta put hands on her unless she test you.

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Give her an over the top greeting, make it obvious “yeah I see you and yeah I’m talkin to you and yeah don’t even try it.” Every time.

40 Examples Of How People Handled Neighbors That Would Only Interact With Their Partners

Maybe your husband shouldn’t greet her back. Not suggesting anything, just maybe if he stops greeting her back and ignores her she will stop all together.

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Tell HIM to stop responding to ppl who don’t respect you also answer for the both of yall saying “WE said goodmorning " “WE said have a nice day " ..these harlots know what they be doing but ya husband should respect you enough to not respond to someone who does that 🤷🏽‍♀️

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That is rude and disrespectful, your husband shouldn’t be greeting her back!

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Look honey… Thank you but no thanks. He’s happy here & you should go & do the same.. And tell your husband to be present when you say it so they both can be reassured & everything is understood.

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She probably thinks you didn’t like her, but your husband has always been friendly to her.

40 Examples Of How People Handled Neighbors That Would Only Interact With Their Partners

Handle? I would be so happy to be left alone. Let my husband deal with her!Also, I would say “neighbour who’s a woman.” “Female,” is used for animals that arn’t human.“How do you deal with a female dog who doesn’t greet you but greets your husband?”And in that case I would be really upset!!! Why doesn’t she like me!?!?

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Print all of this out and just hand it to her. “Hellllur ole raggedy a*s. I know you don’t like to talk much so here’s something to read tonight before bed. I would say have a good one, however, I don’t like to lie.”

You answer for your husband. Don’t break eye contact with her. I’m not even joking. I did this to a waitress one time. Be a sl*t but not around me because I WILL check you.

I’m not handling anyone but my husband. The question to my husband would be, why is she so comfortable speaking to you? No matter his answer, I would ask him to make it uncomfortable, please.

Say “hello, how’s your day? I’m here too.”

I used to greet my ex in the driveway when he got home. Give that man of yours a huge sloppy kiss on that face as soon as he gets out of his car! Make sure you are wearing something sexy too! Your neighbor will hate it, but your husband will love it!

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Ask her what’s going wrong in her life.

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Show her that you’ve got his needs under control, window open or garden will suffice

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