Being aweddingguest seems pretty straightforward, right? All one has to do upon receiving an invitation is RSVP on time, turn up looking pretty (without wearing white!), have a great time, and (politely) celebrate the couple. However, not everyone is capable of following a few etiquette rules, making it a day to remember, in a bad way, obviously.Our team atBored Pandahas carefully collected some of the trashiestweddingguests that couples immensely regretted inviting. Scroll down to find them, and make sure to upvote the ones that are worse than any bridezilla out there.While you’re at it, don’t forget to check out a conversation with Kate Duff, wedding and event planner and founder ofHitch Perfect, who kindly agreed to tell us more about the faux pas of wedding guests.This post may includeaffiliate links.

Being aweddingguest seems pretty straightforward, right? All one has to do upon receiving an invitation is RSVP on time, turn up looking pretty (without wearing white!), have a great time, and (politely) celebrate the couple. However, not everyone is capable of following a few etiquette rules, making it a day to remember, in a bad way, obviously.

Our team atBored Pandahas carefully collected some of the trashiestweddingguests that couples immensely regretted inviting. Scroll down to find them, and make sure to upvote the ones that are worse than any bridezilla out there.

While you’re at it, don’t forget to check out a conversation with Kate Duff, wedding and event planner and founder ofHitch Perfect, who kindly agreed to tell us more about the faux pas of wedding guests.

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Kate Duff, wedding and event planner and founder ofHitch Perfect,tells us that the most common faux pas of wedding guests is RSVPing late.“This is a big source of stress for couples, as it makes final preparations difficult—not to mention costly when you think about the fact that most couples pay per head!” she said.

Kate Duff, wedding and event planner and founder ofHitch Perfect,tells us that the most common faux pas of wedding guests is RSVPing late.

“This is a big source of stress for couples, as it makes final preparations difficult—not to mention costly when you think about the fact that most couples pay per head!” she said.

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She wore white to one other sisters in law wedding too. The third sister in law she approved of so she wore purple. She is no longer in our lives for many reasons.

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“Bringing along uninvited kids is another major faux pas,” Kate adds. “Mostcouplesthese days specify on their invitations whether children are welcome or if it’s an adult-only affair. Many prefer the latter due to the interruptions that can occur during the ceremony!”

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One more seriousmistakethat wedding guests are guilty of committing is arriving late. “Wedding day timelines are very carefully created to ensure the ceremony happens seamlessly—there are many events that need to happen to make up a wedding day so late guests can cause unwanted delays. It’s for this reason that timelines often include buffers for tardy guests,” Kate explained.

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“On your invites or wedding website, include clear directions on dress code, plus-ones, ceremony start time, and any other key details. Appoint a key contact for the day of the wedding to handle any guest-related issues. This is usually your wedding planner. However, if you’re planning the wedding yourself, identify a trusted family member or close friend to keep an eye on things,” she suggested.

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SIL showed up in a ‘yellow’ dress….WITH a train!! Bride is on the left in the bottom photo.

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Kate also strongly recommends couples utilize a master of ceremonies (MC) to prevent guests from ruining their event. “Many MCs will ask the couple ahead of time whether there are any guests to ‘watch out for.’ If you have an attendee that you know can be trouble, have a word with your MC to make sure no impromptu speeches or unsavory song choices make the cut.”

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“Consider whether you can realistically see them in your life in 10 years,” she further advises. “Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime—make sure your guests are reflective of the importance of the occasion. This is particularly useful when considering whether to invite work colleagues.”

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Lastly, Kate encourages couples to stand firm on obligation invitations. “You don’t need to invite someone because you went to their wedding. You don’t need to offer a plus one or allow children to attend. Keep in mind that this day is about you!”

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After a very emotionally and financially taxing wedding planning era, I felt I was finally turning the corner today into excitement for our wedding on Saturday when I recieved this letter in the mail, no return address and no real discernable information for who may have sent it. The only clue is on the postage cancelation stamp, I can deduce it came from a post office not far from my hometown but in a populated area from which a lot of our guests hail from, and about an hour from where we live. It was addressed only to me (bride) and not my fiancé. I have been wracking my brain for who could have possibly sent it but am coming up short. Any advice on how to not spiral??

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I invited a cousin I practically never see only because I invited her mom and her sister whom I do see regularly. I gave in for her partner but now she’s asking for one additional.

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