Being a parent is a joy like no other. You get to see a whole human being grow up from a little nugget into an independent thinker. Granted, it also comes with some challenges, like constant worry, having to discipline, the stress, and the fatigue.So, it’s healthy to sometimes take a break and have a laugh at the woes ofbeing a parent. Just like every month, we’ve collected a bunch of tweets from parents who managed to somehow make it through February. Scroll down and see for yourself that sometimeskids sayand do the darnedest things!This post may includeaffiliate links.
Being a parent is a joy like no other. You get to see a whole human being grow up from a little nugget into an independent thinker. Granted, it also comes with some challenges, like constant worry, having to discipline, the stress, and the fatigue.
So, it’s healthy to sometimes take a break and have a laugh at the woes ofbeing a parent. Just like every month, we’ve collected a bunch of tweets from parents who managed to somehow make it through February. Scroll down and see for yourself that sometimeskids sayand do the darnedest things!
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As you scroll through thesetweets, you might start thinking: “Are parents OK?” And the answer is no, parents are not OK. At least not at the moment. Researchshowsthat parents are spending more time on caregiving than any other previous generations. And, on top of that, both parents are usually working full-time.
Just last year, the U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthywarnedthat the pressure that parents face has become a public health concern. In his issued advisory, he claims that the biggest stressors are the costs of childcare, education, and healthcare.But parents are also worrying about their kids and how they’re doing. With school shootings, the youth mental health crisis, and the loneliness epidemic, parents are feeling pretty powerless in their roles. What’s more, the added stress of the mental load, struggling to find the time to work, and finding childcare stressed parents even more.
Just last year, the U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthywarnedthat the pressure that parents face has become a public health concern. In his issued advisory, he claims that the biggest stressors are the costs of childcare, education, and healthcare.
But parents are also worrying about their kids and how they’re doing. With school shootings, the youth mental health crisis, and the loneliness epidemic, parents are feeling pretty powerless in their roles. What’s more, the added stress of the mental load, struggling to find the time to work, and finding childcare stressed parents even more.
Social media is stressing parents out just as much as it’s negatively impacting their kids. Psychologist and host of the “Authentic Parenting” podcast Anna Seewaldtold CNNthat parents need to take stock of how much time they’re spending on social media. “That’s a background stressor for a lot of people in a world of many stressors — and it’s one that you can control,” she says.
Instead, the psychologist says, parents should strive to connect with their kids and their loved ones in person. As social psychologist Alex DanversexplainedtoBored Pandain a previous article, being around people for at least four hours a day can be enough. “It really is just about being in other people’s company, even if you’re just talking about what frozen pizza to make while you play video games,” he said.
Seewald also recommends parents don’t stretch themselves too thin. While it might sound and look cool to be a super parent, you don’t have to do everything. It’s okay to miss a birthday party, take some time for yourself, hire a nanny for a day, or have coffee with a neighbor. “Preserving and protecting your own energy and time is more important.”
Overall, parents should give themselves some slack. Seewald says that parents should practice self-compassion. That includes being kind to yourself when you make mistakes or yell at your kids. “Feeling inadequate and shameful is a recipe for failure,” she explained.
Humor can be a great outlet for parents to vent their frustrations about parenting. However, recent research alsoshowsthat parents who incorporate humor into their parenting have better relationships with their children. Kids whose parents used humor saw their childhoods in a more positive light as well.
Benjamin Levi, professor of pediatrics and humanities at Penn State College of Medicine and senior author of the study, explained why humor can help parents. “Humor can teach people cognitive flexibility, relieve stress, and promote creative problem solving and resilience.”
Pediatric resident Lucy Emery, co-author of the study, likened the effects of humor on parenting with the benefits it brings to business relationships. When used in workplace environments, humor diffuses tension, reduces hierarchies, and helps build a better environment for teamwork. It works similarly in families, only the relationship between a parent and a child is more loving.
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How do you think these parents fared in February, Pandas? Did you find any of their tweets particularly relatable? Share with us your adventures from the past month, parent Pandas! And, if you haven’t already, don’t forget to check out our edition of the funniestparenting tweetsfromJanuary.
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