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Any kind of ultimatum, like: “It’s me or your cats/friends/hobbies.” They were here before you, and they will be here after you.
If my date is rude to anyone in the service industry, there won’t be another date. That s**t tells me exactly who you are.
General punctuality, though this is a state with friends too.If you’re going to be late, let me know when you know. If you live 30 minutes away and text me you are leaving 5 minutes before we are due to meet, you knew you were going to be late 25 minutes ago.It’s a small thing but I’ve known people like that and I’ve waited in the cold enough.
Someone who brings nothing to the table except deigning to allow me the opportunity to treat her like a queen.Sorry, I’d rather stay single than deal with that s**t…
Lack of empathy/ compassion
Dishonesty is my main one. If you can’t trust them, then there’s no reason to even date them because you’re always going to worry about what they’re doing when they’re not with you.
If she’s an influencer or has plans to become an influencer.
For me, when I was dating, it was women who didn’t know how to cook or clean. That may seem a bit misogynistic, but I am someone who cooks and cleans and can keep a house. The number of people I would go on dates with that didn’t have those skills was a bit baffling to me. How do you feed yourself? Is it takeout every night? I wouldn’t expect a potential partner to be unable to do household things that I do, nor one that was unwilling to share the burden of keeping a place together.
Screen addiction is a turn off.
I have had a few women I met online start talking about how supportive I can be for their children before I even met them. Like if you just shopping for a replacement for their non-existant Dad I am out.
Inability to say sorry or own up to their mistakes.Flakyness.Being overly dramatic and loud.
This sounds dumb, but if she’s not into me, I’m not interested. If she plays hard to get, I’m done. I’m not playing the games anymore. You’d be surprised how often a women has SAID she was into me, but won’t do anything at all to act like she is.
Very religious. Poly (just not for me). Lack of communication.
Someone with no hobbies or no passion for anything at all
Honestly, anything to the effect of “men are trash” or “I hate that I’m attracted to men” in their dating profile.Like, I get it. A lot of women have had a lot of really bad experiences with men. And at the same time, I’m not here to fix anyone and I really hate being treated like “one of the good ones.” If you really hate men to the extent that you need to declare it on your dating profile, you should probably be working that out with a therapist.
Inability to acknowledge being wrong. Being able to do that and grow with me as an individual was literally one of the biggest things that led to me falling in love with my current gf. I will never again EVER be in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t have that quality because seeing how much better this relationship has been than any of my previous, I just can’t ever go back.
Flakyness. If they keep canceling plans, I’m out.
Height preferences on dating profiles/bios. It’s just rude. I cant help being 5 7, I have been this height for ages. I get preferences and stuff, but seeing ‘if you’re under 6 foot don’t bother’ on the reg is a bit of a downer.Also, horses. I went out with a horse-y girl, and it was a car crash, I don’t blame the actual horses, but horses make girls get a bit weird. If you know you know.
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Anything along the lines of “being a boss babe” and “you better keep up with me”Ugh
Lack of communication skills! I need engaging conversation! I don’t want to talk to a wall😅
If she’d leave me for behaving like her.That covers most of them.
If she’s rude or mean.
Not understanding or working toward improving their own mental health.
I like to be a gentleman, but I want that to be something that is appreciated, not expected or demanded
Not having any goals other than having fun. My ex just lived to “go out” every night with her friends. No future there, and an unhealthy relationship with alcohol (and her ex boyfriend after a few drinks one night). That was a clusterf**k of chaos that I’m glad to be free from.
Smoking and lack of accountability and inability to learn from mistakes.
Inconsistent communication style, just feels like I’m being strung along. Also don’t date single-mothers, I’m sure they’re nice and the kids are great but I’m just not in a place in my life where I’m comfortable with that kind of situation.
Wanting to continue living as though they’re single but still have the emotional fulfillment of a relationship.
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Distant personality, that s**t can take a lot out of me
Doomerism. if you unironically say “my retirement plan is death, spend it today” you’re too mixed up for me.
Having an onlyfans
Right now, I’d say a kid. Nothing against having them and I’d like some of my own some day, I’m just not ready to be a step-dad
There are increasing numbers of women who are not looking to get married, ever, and/or are looking for multiple partners in an “ethically non monogamous” arrangement. That’s not for me.
If she eats her peas one at a time
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