When it comes to living a good and meaningful life, many of us have collected some nuggets of wisdom over the years. If you were to go up to a random stranger on the street, the odds are that they’d have at least a handful ofadvicethey’d be happy to share with you. The sprawlingr/LifeProTipscommunity does the same thing, but more conveniently.We’ve collected some of their members’ best tips from this month, fromhealthand wealth to relationships, work, and DIY. Read on to check them out. Some of them are going to be completely new to you, so make sure you apply them instead of just taking notes. Meanwhile, others might sound familiar to you, so they serve as a reminder to keep doing what works!We got in touch with Jodi Wellman, MAPP, to hear her thoughts on why some people don’t want to listen to well-intended advice and what someone should prioritize if they’re overwhelmed with everything they’re ‘supposed’ to do. You’ll findBored Panda’sfull interview with her below. Wellman is the author of’You Only Die Once: How to Make It to the End with No Regrets’and the founder of’Four Thousand Mondays.‘This post may includeaffiliate links.
When it comes to living a good and meaningful life, many of us have collected some nuggets of wisdom over the years. If you were to go up to a random stranger on the street, the odds are that they’d have at least a handful ofadvicethey’d be happy to share with you. The sprawlingr/LifeProTipscommunity does the same thing, but more conveniently.We’ve collected some of their members’ best tips from this month, fromhealthand wealth to relationships, work, and DIY. Read on to check them out. Some of them are going to be completely new to you, so make sure you apply them instead of just taking notes. Meanwhile, others might sound familiar to you, so they serve as a reminder to keep doing what works!We got in touch with Jodi Wellman, MAPP, to hear her thoughts on why some people don’t want to listen to well-intended advice and what someone should prioritize if they’re overwhelmed with everything they’re ‘supposed’ to do. You’ll findBored Panda’sfull interview with her below. Wellman is the author of’You Only Die Once: How to Make It to the End with No Regrets’and the founder of’Four Thousand Mondays.’
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I’m friends with someone 30 years older than me. He could be my dad. We have a genuine friendship though, it’s not a mentor/mentee type relationship. We just really get along and click.I’ve learned a lot from him and he’s also learned a lot from me. We’re prisoners of time. It’s easy to get trapped in our generation’s thinking. A lot to be learned from people older and younger than you, and they have a lot to learn from you too. I like to think that this friendship has given me a greater sense of perspective about the world and I’m thankful for it.
Even though some of us feel like we’ve got some quality nuggets of wisdom to share, the reality is that far from everyone wants to listen to what we have to say. Bored Panda askedWellmanwhy this happens and what we could all do to make those tips seem a tad more appealing.“A funny thing happens when we offer advice—even if it’s well intended. It creates a relationship dynamic of ‘I am above you, and you are beneath me,’ which is likely not what we want to project, right?! We want to help, not hold ourselves on high above ‘the people who don’t know any better!'” she shed some light on the issue in an email.“People tend to receive advice if it’s framed within a series of coaching questions. Asking how the person is feeling about the situation, what they’ve tried that has worked/not worked in the past, what outcomes they’d like to see happen… these questions show the other person you’re truly curious and care about them,” Wellman explained.
Even though some of us feel like we’ve got some quality nuggets of wisdom to share, the reality is that far from everyone wants to listen to what we have to say. Bored Panda askedWellmanwhy this happens and what we could all do to make those tips seem a tad more appealing.
“A funny thing happens when we offer advice—even if it’s well intended. It creates a relationship dynamic of ‘I am above you, and you are beneath me,’ which is likely not what we want to project, right?! We want to help, not hold ourselves on high above ‘the people who don’t know any better!'” she shed some light on the issue in an email.
“People tend to receive advice if it’s framed within a series of coaching questions. Asking how the person is feeling about the situation, what they’ve tried that has worked/not worked in the past, what outcomes they’d like to see happen… these questions show the other person you’re truly curious and care about them,” Wellman explained.
When people ask me what I want to do and I say “nothing” they keep asking like I’m being coy or maybe I’ll change my mind. Some people just aren’t into celebrating and pressing them about it makes it worse.
With warmer months coming up soon, here’s a tip for a fun way to stay cool. I’ve run games for many summer programs, including water games, and I’ve hated trying to use waterballoons. They take a ton of time to prep and clean up, and they run out very quickly. So I looked for another option and ended up trying carwash sponges from Walmart and they worked great. Cut the sponges in half and soak them in a bucket or tub of water. Each sponge half will be good for hundreds of throws, they don’t hurt at all when you get hit with one, and they’re easy to refill quickly. They work great for dodgeball games.
“Leave room to simply be a listening friend, not an advice-giver. Giving advice to an unreceptive person is unproductive and risks damaging the relationship.”
Meanwhile,Wellmanpointed out that it’s a “fabulous first step” to accept the fact that we won’t have the time to do even a fraction of the things we want to. “Focusing on our diminishing time can be helpful, even if it seems to increase the pressure. Counting how many Mondays you have left, for example, can get us focused on the limited time we have. This heightens our sense of what matters and can help with prioritization,” she told Bored Panda.
You should let your spouse know your passwords and have access to your phone. My wife and i have thumbprint access to each others phones. She knows where I keep my pass code book. She doesn’t need access, until she does.I had a series of strokes a few years ago. Feeling better now, but at the time I was full on gimpy. It could happen again.When my dad died, we couldn’t access his phone or online accounts. It was horrible.I trust my wife. I get some of you don’t (why stay married?). It could make the difference in a very difficult time.
This was a tip from my girlfriend who works in customer support, because I was struggling to get urgent help from my energy provider as they had me on loop trying to explain my issue to an AI who didn’t understand anything I was saying, and same thing with a chatbot on their website. The virtual assistant wanted me to recite my 12-digit account number, and the chatbot only had 3 predefined questions I could ask.I then told the virtual assistant I wanted to cancel my plan and they immediately redirected me to a human agent. No waiting line whatsoever. I’m guessing it was the retention department, but when I explained my issue, the agent transferred me to the correct department and my problem was solved in 5 minutes. Then I did the same with my healthcare provider because I also needed to ask them something, so I said I wanted to cancel it and they sent me to a human agent. I will 100% be trying this in the future whenever I need help from lazy companies whose services I have to pay for.So there you go. I’m sure this won’t work in all cases but it’s worth a try if you’re going in loops with an unhelpful AI.
Returning something that was shipped in a plastic shipping bag? Tired of tearing the bag trying to remove all the old shipping labels or trying to fold the bag in a specific way to hide the old labels?Turn the bag inside out. Old labels are all now hidden and you arent having to tape it up into a diaper shape for the return trip!Credit: My most amazing girlfriend.
“Listen to the things that resonate with you, and give them a go first. Like if meditation sounds interesting, try that. If green smoothies and gratitude journals make you nauseous, skip them. Release the pressure to adopt All The Things and pick one thing at a time that makes you feel alive.We can only live one day at a time, so being intentional about TODAY tends to decrease long-term anxiety.“Feel free tocalculatethe number of Mondays you (probably) have left and check out Wellman’s book’You Only Die Once: How to Make It to the End with No Regrets.’
“Listen to the things that resonate with you, and give them a go first. Like if meditation sounds interesting, try that. If green smoothies and gratitude journals make you nauseous, skip them. Release the pressure to adopt All The Things and pick one thing at a time that makes you feel alive.
We can only live one day at a time, so being intentional about TODAY tends to decrease long-term anxiety.”
Feel free tocalculatethe number of Mondays you (probably) have left and check out Wellman’s book’You Only Die Once: How to Make It to the End with No Regrets.’
Pretty self explanatory really. It was difficult to switch at first and I’ve to catch myself and correct it but I’ve since built up the habit and do it on autopilot. It’s saved my life so many times!
During a camping trip, my friend got separated from our group in a thick forest as night was falling. We spent hours shouting and searching with no luck. Thankfully, she had a whistle with her and started blowing it. The sound carried much farther than our voices, and we were able to locate her quickly. God knows what might have happened had she not brought it with her. A whistle is a small, lightweight tool that can make a huge difference in an emergency, helping rescuers or fellow campers find you if you get lost or injured.
I see people doing this often. I think it is an attempt at encouraging them. “They are thinking you can do this it is easy” when they say it, but it doesn’t come off well. When people are first learning something, it can be rather complicated if their capabilities don’t match yours. Telling them it is easy means if they fail to be able to complete the tasks well and efficiently, they are going to feel dumb and insufficient.When I was young and dumber I made this mistake. I wish someone would have corrected me. I had to realize it on my own.
Folks might have different thoughts on what matters the most in life. But the general trends are more or less the same. From our perspective, you should focus on two main things: your social life and your health. And, yes, we’re putting your relationships above your physical fitness! But get both right, and you’ll have plenty of energy and resilience to pursue whatever purpose in life that’s calling your name.
I have been a volunteer at a shelter working with dogs and cats, and now I foster cats for a rescue organization. Whenever people adopt a new pet, they often just meet the animals and hang out for 5-10 minutes before making this really big decision. But the volunteers and foster parents know these animals really well and they have opinions. You should ask them which animal they would adopt if they could and why. It’s heartbreaking to watch the sweetest dogs and cats get passed up because they don’t give the best first impressions.Edit to clarify: I specifically recommend talking to volunteers. While there are a lot of great staff, they often have a lot of other work and don’t spend much time with the animals. The volunteers don’t have any reason to lie to you and they all have their favorites. They are there simply because they love animals, not for a pay check.
If you’re leaving a message for someone to return your call, clearly state your name and telephone number at the beginning. That way the person doesn’t have to listen to the whole message repeatedly just to get your information.
Those meaningful relationships, in turn, makes you healthier and happier. On the flip side, bad relationships andlonelinessare awful for our well-being. So if you can do one thing today to improve your life, take the time to intentionally connect with someone you care about and who makes you feel good.In terms of exercise and diet, it’s hard to know what to do when everybody seems to have an opinion about everything. The key thing to remember is not to get hyped up over short-term trends. Listen to your body and what it needs.Find a few forms of exercise that you genuinely enjoy and do themconsistently. If you hate jogging but love hiking, do that! If you’re a swimmer and a tennis player rather than a footballer or power-lifter, embrace that. When you love what you do, it’s easier to stay consistent. Just make sure that you get some cardio and strength training in.
Those meaningful relationships, in turn, makes you healthier and happier. On the flip side, bad relationships andlonelinessare awful for our well-being. So if you can do one thing today to improve your life, take the time to intentionally connect with someone you care about and who makes you feel good.
In terms of exercise and diet, it’s hard to know what to do when everybody seems to have an opinion about everything. The key thing to remember is not to get hyped up over short-term trends. Listen to your body and what it needs.
Find a few forms of exercise that you genuinely enjoy and do themconsistently. If you hate jogging but love hiking, do that! If you’re a swimmer and a tennis player rather than a footballer or power-lifter, embrace that. When you love what you do, it’s easier to stay consistent. Just make sure that you get some cardio and strength training in.
It will dry it out and help to prevent any mold from growing in a dark, damp place.
The Physical Activity Guidelines for Americansrecommends150 minutes of moderate-intensity or 75 minutes of vigorous-intensity physical activity per week for adults. Or a combination of the two. Meanwhile, you also need to aim for at least two days of muscle-strengthening activity per week.Diet-wise, avoid junk and processed foods, added sugar, and saturated fat, as well as alcohol and nicotine. Opt for more veggies, legumes, healthy fats, and protein. And consider getting tested to see if you have any food allergies or can’t tolerate certain ingredients: you’ll want to steer clear of those.
The Physical Activity Guidelines for Americansrecommends150 minutes of moderate-intensity or 75 minutes of vigorous-intensity physical activity per week for adults. Or a combination of the two. Meanwhile, you also need to aim for at least two days of muscle-strengthening activity per week.
Diet-wise, avoid junk and processed foods, added sugar, and saturated fat, as well as alcohol and nicotine. Opt for more veggies, legumes, healthy fats, and protein. And consider getting tested to see if you have any food allergies or can’t tolerate certain ingredients: you’ll want to steer clear of those.
To provide a good home for a bengal you really have to be ready to put some effort in, they’re wildly smart and a tiny bit bloodthirsty given they are miniature panthers. If you’re looking for your first cat and are considering getting a fancy bread, consider himalayans or ragdolls. They look just as beautiful and are very chill.In general it’s best practice to adopt cats from shelters since they’re so many strays out there, but if you are set on a purebred FYI.
Life pro tip: “ Siri, Call Mom “Got a call from my daughter which I answered with “ Hi luv! ”. Nope. It wasn’t “ luv” it was a very benevolent dude who had found my daughters phone at crowded event .He was a genius and asked Siri to “ Call Mom”. I was able to reach out to her friends, share his number. Phone secured!She owes him a drink.( I’m waiting for the: “ and that’s how I met your mother “ comment :-)So…. if you find a phone and want to reconnect it with the rightful owner. Engage Siri to do the sluthing for you!
People absolutely love reading and sharinglife adviceon the internet. The proof is in the pudding. The r/LifeProTips subreddit boasts 23 million members from all around the globe. Many of them actively share their best advice with everyone else, as well as comment on other people’s posts.There’s a lot of wisdom to be found among the digital pages of their archives. The tips themselves are incredibly varied. You can find posts on topics both broad and incredibly niche. And in the rare case that you need even more personalized advice, you can always ask the community for help directly. They’re very friendly and often more than happy to lend a hand. Or, well, in this case, a digital quill.
People absolutely love reading and sharinglife adviceon the internet. The proof is in the pudding. The r/LifeProTips subreddit boasts 23 million members from all around the globe. Many of them actively share their best advice with everyone else, as well as comment on other people’s posts.
There’s a lot of wisdom to be found among the digital pages of their archives. The tips themselves are incredibly varied. You can find posts on topics both broad and incredibly niche. And in the rare case that you need even more personalized advice, you can always ask the community for help directly. They’re very friendly and often more than happy to lend a hand. Or, well, in this case, a digital quill.
In deadly emergencies where too many people are trying to exit a confined space at the same time (Station Nightclub fire for example), panic causes people to attempt to flee from the same way they entered. Many fewer people would have died at the Station Nightclub fire had they thought to use the stage door exit, which went nearly unused for a few minutes while the front had already become jammed with people trying to get out.If you’re in a crowded space, know a way out that’s not the way most people came in.
I was doing some research about a dishwasher when I somehow came across the “A–Z Online Resources” on my local library site. To my surprise, Consumer Reports was on there and via my library card number I was able to access their full site. I also noticed the Washington Post, WSJ, Linkedin Learning, and a suite of other subscription sites were accessible as well.YMMV. Have fun!
Which of the tips in this list did you personally find the most useful? What’s the best life advice that you could give anyone right here, right now, dear Pandas? What wisdom would you share with your past self if you could go back in time?
Invest in a good, quality instrument. If that’s not affordable, rent one.Beginner instruments don’t produce good tones. As a student, you have to work harder to get the notes to sound right. It makes the learning process harder, which makes it easier to get frustrated and give up.
I figured this out bc we have a family friend who won’t shut up. so whenever she calls I choose what to make based on how long I feel like talking lol
My current job, at a local quality food market, offers a 30% discount on everything and we often have access to tons of free produce and other free items. That savings adds up quick. Especially during inflation, I think it’s a good idea to get a job like this.
If you are at home and don’t talk to your dogs all the time, there’s no one else they are going to think you are talking to other than them. Give their excitement time to cool down before talking to someone they can’t see.
When buying this weeks Mothers Day card, Birthday, Get Well, Sorry I (#&(@#$ Up, etc. get a spare. Over time you will have a folder full of various cards for those moment you forgot or last minute surprise. You will be amazed how handy a spare “Thinking of You, Love You” at random times can help a relationship in times of trial or strength.
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After a bit of time working there, you can compare what you are actually doing to what your responsibilities were supposed to be to give you an idea of how honest the company is and if you should stick with the role.Down the line, you can also use the original posting info as leverage to get a raise/promotion. If you find yourself doing a lot more or higher level work than you were hired to do, you can point to evidence that your current rate does not match your current level of work.
Unless you have a gaggle of pandas there are only two ways to plant bamboo:1. keep it in a pot as an accent2. in the ground of an overlooked corner of your enemy’s backyard.If you are going to buy a house that has a bamboo zen garden, be prepared for a yearly battle with an invasive plant.
Pretty sure this nag screen only exists to try selling you into their 365 ecosystem. I got tired of the same thing after every update.Settings > System > Notifications > [scroll all the way to bottom] expand Additional settings > uncheck “Suggest ways to get the most out of Windows and finish setting up this device"Enjoy your Windows updates without the nag screen.
This is likely something many already have experienced…but a lot of online shops selling items above say $100 have automated flows that target users which have aborted a purchase, and they will not only remind you about your abandoned checkout but many times will offer you an extra incentive to complete your purchase in the form of a discount, which can sometimes be upwards of 20%. It’s the e-commerce version of playing hardball.This is not a given, there are some industries where profit margins are already razor-thin and/or it’s a seller’s market, but it pays to wait and see what happens.
I’ve been living in apartments with my wife the last 7 years or so. We’ve chosen to live in a spot that’s walkable, near a lot of restaurants, coffee shops, parks, music/film venues, bars, etc. Though we live in relatively cramped quarters compared to a house, we really enjoy our lifestyle. There’s been some press about the lack of a “3rd space” in today’s world. We have 3rd spaces all around us. Gets us out of the house more often, keeps us healthier walking everywhere, and spurs impromptu social encounters. I’m not the most social person, but I know that it’s good for me on occasion.If possible, for a portion of your life, even if only a year or two, try living in a space that has walkable amenities around you. Though we’ve compromised on space, it’s really nice not having to get into a car to access the world around us.For context, we’re at $1775 a month for a 2 bed 1 bath in CA.
My car insurance has been with progressive for the last 5 years. It consistently has gone up a bit every 6 months. This renewal bumped up coverage another 10%. I decided to shop around including getting another quote from progressive. The new quote from progressive was almost 50% lower than the renewal rate for the same coverage. Needless to say, I have one expiring progressive plan and one new plan starting the same day…
I use an iPhone and my battery use showed a lot of background activity with the app and 0% with Safari, which is where I use Facebook now.
If I have learned anything in life, it is that time and time again, the statement in the title holds true. Based on my experiences and observations, no one truly ever believes others are capable of change, or even believes that mistakes happen; and that said mistakes are not indicative of your overall character. Bottom line: even if a bad decision or mistake is an oddity or outlier scenario, you have already sewn the seed of mistrust and that is nearly impossible to change in the minds of others.Best advice: ALWAYS fly below the radar to protect your reputation because you will never outrun a bad one.
anyone in the food service industry knows that 30 minutes before closing can be an opportunity to start prepping for close so you can leave as soon as the door is locked, or at least as close to it as possible. Acknowledging their time is valuable and maybe you’re the last customer they’ve seen in 45 minutes. 9 out of 10 I have gotten a positive response that it is cool to order, and you’re not being “that-guy” (because you are, and you could apologize for it)If you are within 10 minutes of closing, ask them what is the easiest to make without a mess. Not only does this show you know what they’re going through, it’s also polite and sometimes at the end of the day there are extra food items that may have been thrown out or taken home, but now they are encouraged to hook you up with it!Also, at the end of the day, certain tools or surfaces might be dirty from a long day of work and potentially give you food poisoning if they are not wiped down properly, and a tired employee might not GAF about the jerk ordering right before close time , so keep that in mind as well !
Basically: Use prepaid cardsYou can always just cancel the subscription but - i always forget 14 days later.You may also just not want to have your info online.The solution is buying a 25$ prepaid card, swiping it on whatever and the with 4 dollars on it, you can sign up for all the free trials doing this and theres no risk of you losing money - after 7 days, the payment doesn’t go through. Sometimes they charge 1cMy Visa Vanilla card always works but recently i got a Joker Mastercard and it usually does not work for online purchases so watch out. Not a life changer but i dont feel as stressed or concerned about having to cancel the subscription that I only wanted to use once for a premium feature. If you really wanted to milk a site you could also likely just get a new email.
You will have a nice conversation, will be glad that you reached out to someone and - as you can’t do much during the call anyway - will clean a kitchen (or other chore which is not too loud as vacumming). I just did that accidentaly today and after had two reasons to be happy about.
I found out the tough way a few years ago when I covered my neck and arms in fake tattoos for a festival. They immediately melted off after applying the spray sunscreen. This was useful the other night when my son applied a fake tattoo to the middle of his forehead. I did a quick spritz with the sunscreen and it came off without any scrubbing or fuss!
Some self checkouts in Canada have the option to pay with cash and coins. I bring all of my accumulated small change and pay with that instead of my usual debit card. this way I am able to use the full value of the coins (most cashing programs take a percentage of the value of the coins) and it’s an immediate cash for goods transaction. And you don’t have to torture a human cashier with $30 worth of nickels and dimes
This applies to food, but also could apply to many other things. If you find yourself debating whether you should eat that piece of chicken that’s sat for too long or that one piece of food that doesn’t look or smell quite right, don’t. Unless you’re in a life or death situation, throw it out.For cheese and bread or anything that can get moldy, you can’t cut out the mold. Even if you cut it out it will have grown micelles all around the food. For meat, if it feels slimey, is concerningly discolored or smells of ammonia, DO NOT EAT.For rice, do not keep it isolated in a warm and humid spot (e.g. sealable bowls) and leave it. Any starchy food that has been kept at room temperature for more than a couple of hours runs the risk of poisoning you.
Rideshare, e-Scooters, food delivery… a lot of times of you open and close them without using they will send a discount notification for use that day.
The reason is that surges and rapid cycling is probably most common at the moment power is restored following an outage/blackout. Rapid cycling can be almost as bad as a surge for some devices.Similarly, if your lights are flickering or dimming erratically, unplug your expensive stuff until the power is stable again.
I spent years dealing with headphone failures. Replacing them when one ear died, or audio just stopped. Then a friend recommended a pair that had a detachable cable, and pointed out that the highest point of failure in headphones was the wire.It’s been over a decade and I don’t really have any major issues with my headphones. I did have one cable fail on me, but I was able to swap it with another cable it came with.And as a side bonus (and maybe related), cables are super easy to un tangle when you detach them. Since both sides are free they lose all tension and naturally untwist.Also I highly recommend getting a quality dedicated microphone, and just buy headphones that are headphones. That’s yet another moving part that can force you to buy a new pair of cans.
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